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	<title>Elle Dailies &#187; failure</title>
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		<title>Fail to Fit In</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 13:42:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[More great words of wisdom from my friend Steve Straus! __________________________________________________________ ...S T E V E ' S....3 - M I N U T E....C O A C H I N G Steve Straus - Coach Subscribers: 1600+ Readers: 3200+ 01JUN11 __________________________________________________________ Today's Topic - PRINCIPLE: Fail To Fit In (Principles are basic truths that, when applied, cause success to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>More great words of wisdom from my friend Steve Straus!</p>
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<pre style="line-height: 17px; white-space: normal;"><br style="line-height: 17px;" />...S T E V E ' S....3 - M I N U T E....C O A C H I N G <br style="line-height: 17px;" />Steve Straus - Coach Subscribers: 1600+ Readers: 3200+ 01JUN11 <br style="line-height: 17px;" />__________________________________________________________ <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />Today's Topic - PRINCIPLE: Fail To Fit In <br style="line-height: 17px;" />(Principles are basic truths that, when applied, <br style="line-height: 17px;" />cause success to come to you easier and quicker.) <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />When you just fit in, your passion dies a little. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />When you just fit in, we all lose the contribution you <br style="line-height: 17px;" />could have made. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />When you just fit in, you believe in your own truth a <br style="line-height: 17px;" />little less. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />Fitting in sucks. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />You fit in because you're afraid to stand up, stand out. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />You fit in because you've been conditioned to, by them, <br style="line-height: 17px;" />by the system. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />You fit in because you don't believe in you, you believe <br style="line-height: 17px;" />in them, in the system. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />Fitting in kills you a little. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />But don't fail to fit in just because it makes you unique. <br style="line-height: 17px;" />That's merely being needy for attention. That's using the <br style="line-height: 17px;" />outside, their reactions, to define you. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />Fail to fit in because it would be inauthentic for you to <br style="line-height: 17px;" />do anything else! That comes from a place so deep <br style="line-height: 17px;" />inside you that you may not have even seen it before. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />If "they" don't like it when you fail to fit in, you may be <br style="line-height: 17px;" />planted in the wrong place. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />We don't need you to fit in. We need you to inspire us. <br style="line-height: 17px;" />To show us what we're capable of, too. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />Coaching Point: Where, recently, have you failed to fit in? <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />YOU ARE FREE TO FORWARD THIS. And Thanks! <br style="line-height: 17px;" />Copyright 2011 Steve Straus. All rights reserved. <br style="line-height: 17px;" />++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ <br style="line-height: 17px;" />To subscribe or unsubscribe, click here <br style="line-height: 17px;" />www.StrausUSA.com/subscribe.htm then enter your email address. <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" /><br style="line-height: 17px;" />Steve Straus <br style="line-height: 17px;" />A Coach for highly successful people -- since 1987 <br style="line-height: 17px;" />195 Panorama Cir., Pottsboro, Texas 75076 USA <br style="line-height: 17px;" />903-786-4786 <br style="line-height: 17px;" /><a style="line-height: 17px; font-weight: inherit; text-decoration: underline; color: #0068cf; cursor: pointer;" href="http://www.StrausUSA.com/" target="_blank">http://www.StrausUSA.com</a> <br style="line-height: 17px;" /></pre>
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		<title>Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 20:10:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>edbubbly</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently figured out that in order to change you have to re-interpret the meaning of what it is you want to change. For example, instead of eating a chocolat bar when I&#8217;m feeling a little stressed, I figured out that I need to re-interpret the signal to wanting to eat a chocolat bar to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently figured out that in order to change you have to re-interpret the meaning of what it is you want to change.</p>
<p>For example, instead of eating a chocolat bar when I&#8217;m feeling a little stressed, I figured out that I need to re-interpret the signal to wanting to eat a chocolat bar to mean that I want to have a drink of water.</p>
<p>In order to achieve success, I need to re-interpret frustration as fascination.</p>
<p>In order to achieve success, I need to re-interpret frustration and rejection as success.  Just think of Babe Ruth.  He was known as the homerun king.  What people don&#8217;t know is that he was also the strike out king.  So in order for him to achieve massive success he had to have massive failure.  Think of how knowing this and applying this principle can and will affect your life.</p>
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